Dear Steve and Shirley,
My husband falls asleep on the couch all the time while he’s scrolling through his phone. The other night, I thought the TV was up too loud, so I went to tell him to turn it down a little bit. He was knocked out, with his phone on his chest and his AirPods in. I took them out, and when I did, I could hear a video playing on his phone. There was music, and a woman in the background.
I started watching the video because a woman was bare-chested, bent over, kissed a man, and told him to take a selfie with her. My husband then turned around in the video and kissed the woman dead in the mouth. She laughed and said it was a video, not a picture.
He said, “Oh heck no!” and told her to delete the video. I guess she thought she deleted it, but she didn’t, and I could see my husband putting his shirt on and fasten her bra for her.
I went through the text messages after that, and he asked if she had deleted the video. She said she didn’t because it was special. She told him she was going to send the video to him, and she did. His next text was, “Look at my baby.” I sent the video to my phone before I deleted it off his phone. I texted the lady back from his phone to let her know that I saw it and would appreciate it if she didn’t see my husband anymore.
My husband admitted that he went over to her house and intended to have sex but couldn’t go through with it. He said it was lust that got the best of him, and he came to his senses and left. He assured me it will never happen again.
Steve and Shirley, what am I supposed to do with this confession? Should I get the woman's side of the story?